Advice How normal differences are! - and people can settle them rationally and peaceably by getting together and explaining themselves.   Whether it's love or business or family or the larger human groups.   We are speaking of peaceful combat, which is what sports and courts of law try to be. We suggest a mentality of being very direct with our truth in order to engage the other side in settlement.   That's a good way to fight, we are saying here.
Hermit
Five of Wands - Three of Pentacles - Star
 
 
 
Loving Relationship (Three of Pentacles + Star)
 
An honest man who loves with all his heart and tries hard in a relationship.
Honest effort to be loving in this relationship.
Tells the truth when he says he is doing his part with all his might.
We travel to meet together to do activities we enjoy.
Not only tells you (he) loves you but is doing everything (he) can to be supportive and do (his) part.
Crazy about you and willing to do my part in our relationship, trying hard to be loving and kind.
When you love someone who is combative, you have to be the one who is understanding in that relationship.
It's true some people are competitive even in their love relationships!
You see you have competition in your love relationship: There's three of us!
We settle our differences by honest discussion.
 
Lover's Quarrel (Five of Wands + Star)
 
It's true we enjoy one another's company even when we are fighting.
Lover's quarrels are settled nonsexually.
Talk out your conflicts and settle issues peaceably.
An honest relationship includes discussions about conflicts.
We get together and argue (heated discussion) about what the facts are.
Patiently negotiating terms of our relationship in a heated discussion.
His concept of a loving relationship involves word battles.
 
Business: Team Effort (Five of Wands + Three of Pentacles)
 
Explain the facts to the team engaged in the effort.
Dedicated enthusiastic people on the team effort.
Seeking con...