Guidance   Today we examine being in the unassailable position in life, being above the fray. There are two ways to be in this superior position. One is to simply find the desirable defensible spot for ourselves and fit into it so well no one wants it; and the other is to fight for the spot everyone wants until we are the one who wins it. People who love the glory of the fight will always circle and stalk the latter winner, but those same people (who love to clash) hate clashing with the former ...