Advice I am not one of anything anymore, so I have nothing to be against. When people get into being against one or the other member, count me out. I tried so hard in this union, and one day I left and forgot about it. I don't acknowledge the effort I put into avoiding marriage. It's a combative corporate culture; I didn't have to think about leaving it. The company abandons the people who made that big effort as if they never existed. After a struggle to disenfranchise myself, I am free of memb...