Advice The point of this spread is one's attitude about one's position and possessions in life: whether to worry before or after 'having it all,' whether to let concerns about having it all keep one from even going there. As Bob Dylan said early on "When you've got nothin', you've got nothin' to lose.' Being oblivious both to what you want and what you fear gives you self-reliance. I want to be free of anxiety and beholden to no man. But she is at home grieving by herself, she doesn't want to be...
