Guidance If you are an assertive type, how you talk is more important than it is for other people. When two intelligent assertive individuals interact, they trim their sails for one another: They find who can dominate on what subject or activity, in order to share the turf. Here we have a studly manipulative dude and a woman who makes people behave just by being herself. He dominates the conversation as she gets him to talk.    

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