Guidance Doubting your fears sabotages their hold on you. Why let scary stuff get to you? - lay your hands on it. If I pretend I've got everything under control, I just may have. I brought this awful situation on myself, so I think I will handle it myself. Our big point today is that raw unmitigated gall on your part has its uses: It handles the sneaky subversive pretenses that get past our usual (polite) defenses. Sometimes your tongue should be the nuclear deterrent that keeps others' missile...
