Guidance  Such joy you can have just because things are not messed up anymore, just because things are back to normal. Just being healthy is a thrill when you recover from something that disrupts life. What a thrill when the person you love comes back from la-la land saying 'I love you, let's get married.' All this joy because it doesn't hurt anymore. Quit hitting our heads with hammers, you say?  

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Guidance The worst, most tragic and humiliating experiences do not have to be taken full strength or even taken at all: By our attitude, our discipline and our optimistic faith we diminish the effect, we avoid or prevent the experience or its consequences, or we even go into 'duh' mode and don't get it until it's way past. It's marvelous when you can be that stupid: been there myself a lot!

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Guidance Our story is about having the scope to do what you are doing and keeping anything that would interfere at bay. Both minding your own business and asserting yourself within your rightful scope assures your security. Everything is going to be okay when you keep to this part of the turf that you own and know you own. We apply this both to the workplace and to life.

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Guidance They say 'Pick your battles.' The subject today is to choose one thing (at a time) to focus on in order to get your purpose accomplished because you can focus your energy that way. We are getting somewhere, like a vehicle on the road, and we are keeping an eye on the road like driving through the night alone. Oh yes, we are arriving!   Extra Sentences are at the end, after the Copyright language.

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Guidance Women who are skilled have the resources and the motivation to straighten situations out and make things happen the way they should. 'It just happens' when they influence an outcome, and it happens for the best. They tend to limit their influence to do these things to their own immediate surroundings as wives or managers of a business, even though they are take-charge people.

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Guidance Well, what? This is a power struggle involving the women (or the girls), the good guy (or government person). It involves a forceful invasion of turf and a forceful defense. The suggestion is the defenders, the good guys, win. Whoever this message belongs to will relate to it; to most people it is ho-hum. (Please don't shoot the messenger, tomorrow is another day.)

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Guidance  Things get to you - the job, the children - but the good life goes on in spite of whatever aggravates or grieves you. Haunted by the past, you work it out day by day. Your childhood, or other childish or dependent people, are stressful. We contrast your good life to your aggravations over and over until we get it.

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Guidance   The past is a fact, and we can rework it without being delusional. We can recycle the parts that we no longer have use for. Handling the past: what parts we take with us as we head for the future, and what parts we are stuck on wishing to God things had been different: We can plan what use we make of the parts. What we pursue on a daily basis makes a good or a regrettable past. The messages are also about turning financial bad times around, too.

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Guidance This is a simple reminder that when we have not done something satisfactorily or right to suit someone or another, and there's a protest or complaint, it's a crisis for us. We are on alert to make it right. Court proceedings often involve unreasonable people, and unreasonable people find other ways to annoy us too. This advice even has a few remarks about sex.

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Guidance  This is about a man falling in love, marrying and having children: destiny of these things. It also speaks of a working man's reward. The major theme is a loving home life that makes for sweet memories for all (including childhood memories), that this happens due to a man's intending it to and thinking about it.

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