Guidance Oh, the mechanics of Romance. That is where we landed today! Sex, a funloving boy, a sexy and gorgeous gal, and (of course) money. But that is only parts of it; we also cover "She is enjoying a life no longer interfered with: She owns her own power." and "The boy goes straight: There's only one Goddess for him." Among today's gems are: Blondes have more fun; sexy blondes have more money. Having the perfect female makes the boy an important person. The joy of sex with a perfect woman. Ov...

Guidance Today we investigate making a lot of money legally and honestly. Take creative advantage of the lay of the land and keep your mind on the physical world and your own interests, because money is made on terra firma. The point is: Whatever your goal is, put your energy and intention there. If your goal is finding Mr. or Mrs. Right, the strategy differs.  Things happen for the best when you make sure you are okay with yourself.  Just think of being acceptable; being perfect is a miracle. F...

Guidance equates criminal income with cheating in love, an interesting parallel if ever there was one! The role of talk and communication with the persons in your deal … or in your romance … is our turf to explore today - both the kind of talk that clarifies and the kind of talk that sabotages. Our spread reminds me of an early Bob Dylan line "To live outside the law, you must be honest."

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Guidance Chaos is equated with not telling and not living the truth. It isn't as simple as just our own departure from the honest ways; we leave our scene because an unsavory companion wrecked our craft. We speak of leaving town because of our past and what people are saying. We speak of leaving to start over afresh. We talk about how our love life can wreck us, and avoiding that. Overall, though, this is an upbeat read: Better times are ahead.

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Guidance Culture and community life start with what people do with their spouses, family, neighbors - what their conception is of getting along and what they feel is proper when dealing with others on a day-to-day basis. Individual values are expressed, and the expression accumulates right on up to whether it's a warlike nation or not, for example. When we find ourselves in situations that call for us to be something that we normally are not, our decision about how to handle that scene is a brus...

Guidance What people think of is what happens; what they don't think of tends not to happen. The relationship between what we think and care about and what we dismiss without thinking about is today's offbeat theme. Advice is to watch your step, and not sweep under the rug a diamond or a bomb. "When you don't quite know what you search for, the search is never over." Seek humbly to not dismiss your doubts.

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Advice Today is all job related. Will they think you're management if you show them how to do their job? Do you get ahead being friendly? There's that barely visible line in the sand between co-worker and supervisor that has social implications. You succeed because a friend helps you figure out the job. He quietly goes to work to see if he can do the work. Whatever he does that gets him ahead is okay with him. Indecisive about what he wants to achieve but willing to work. Volunteer work may be t...

Advice This is about succeeding when things are a mess, when you have been taken by surprise, when you take initiative in an out-of-control situation and, by golly, it turns out well. It is about doing it yourself in a hurry whilst unprepared and there's no instruction book. Which is what life is. We tend not to think of success as what we are currently doing on the fly; we tend to think of success as something we plan, and as a goal. Well, this says, it's a process and you're in it right now w...

 Advice addresses the two main ways to get ahead or succeed at work and in social life: by being friendly and cooperative, and by being competent and responsible. Of course, success isn't a sure thing, we often have something to wonder about, sometimes something as simple as transportation. I choose to do one after the other while wondering whether to ask for help. Boyfriend does whatever it takes to make it work, now that I think of it. He cheerfully does whatever it takes to make it work.

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Advice The point of this spread is one's attitude about one's position and possessions in life: whether to worry before or after 'having it all,' whether to let concerns about having it all keep one from even going there. As Bob Dylan said early on "When you've got nothin', you've got nothin' to lose.' Being oblivious both to what you want and what you fear gives you self-reliance. I want to be free of anxiety and beholden to no man. But she is at home grieving by herself, she doesn't want to be...