Advice Contrast between what we are supposed to fear and worry about, and stepping out of that box into (not defiance but) indifference, dissociation.  We are not talking about fears that are rational.  Not doing any of the things I am supposed to feel defensive about. Turned off to all the things you put me under pressure about:  I am okay.  Supposed to be nervous about all these things … am totally unconcerned.  Another set of sentences describes how it feels to buy into those fears.

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Advice  Anything can happen, and happen fast, in dating life. It's suddenly on and it's suddenly off. He says he is leaving the wife and stays instead. The woman lets a fellow live with her until a cuter one comes along. Mixed in with these stories are ones about the nurse in charge of your rehab as you get clean again. Makes you wonder about how similar romance is to a dope habit ….

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Advice  Here we contrast opposite directions in life:  Dropping out of active life for the contemplative or spiritual path, and no longer taking the easy way out but getting energetically involved in some difficult enterprise.  We talk as well about no longer being competitive or combative and being cooperative instead.  So what we are talking about is turning points.

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Advice   What happens among clan leaders happens to the people, and the people wonder and worry about just what destiny is coming down to them from Mount Olympus. We wonder and worry about our what will happen to our personal house, our marriage, our family as well. Another destiny we ponder is our chance of a grand opportunity or a jackpot. The role of coincidence in our affairs is a concern, including such puzzles as 'I seem to have gotten married. How the hell did that happen?'

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  Advice You don't have to pay attention. Even if it is Lover Boy or Lover Girl, you don't owe undivided attention just because a stimulus is in front of you. Some stimuli we should sleep through, you know? A ringing phone goes unanswered: That is an answer! Inner peace is a useful tool to disconnect yourself and be 'elsewhere' when the doorbell rings and it's the neighbor's kids again. Sometimes Inside is the place to be.

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  Advice contrasts being powerful in an organization, being a CEO or something like that, with independent power like a retired person with money would have who can do leisure pursuits at will. Finding your inner authority changes you into occupying your rightful space. Not until she discovers her own seat of power does she establish herself. Not until he discovers his own power is he independent. Establishing yourself right where you are is the secret to a new you. We parallel internal and...

Advice   Ahem.  It's only about romance:  Chasing good looking women;  good-looking women don't go chasing.  Young women having fun and not getting ahead.  Not keeping up with your girlfriends.  Being gorgeous without much effort.  Gals in the fast lane are off-limits.  The woman he loves the best isn't in a hurry to share her life with him.  A lady doesn't have to have some guy after her to enjoy her life.  Today is made of stuff like that.

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Advice This is a reminder of the basic principle that people who deal in trust reliably for a continuing time with one another are situated to make money, to be profitable.  Everything is just right for everybody involved when everybody is doing his/her part as agreed upon - and that's not just in business, of course, but that is what we are applying the principle to at the moment.

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Advice A relationship that is as close as you want it to be lasts forever. A mutually satisfying relationship has a future. You get the most out of an ongoing relationship with an equal. It feels so good to be this close for this long, each of us doing our part. The intimate relationship of our dreams is coming up. This will be a mutually beneficial association. We both want always to be fair to one another.

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Advice With skill, you can handle the iffy situations, the 'vicissitudes of fortune,' so that the miracle of a nice normal life occurs due to you.  Justice and Fate are relatives, you know.  You can support the causes that are right for you and affect the turn of events as the wheels of fate turn.  The emphasis here is to back with your skill and your assets what is right for you.

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