Guidance Variations on the normal marital scenario get papered over by our programming filling in the chinks, papering over the parts that don't fit. We do this in our own situation, making the best of things, and in the perceived situations of our associates. It's a polite assumption that all is well, a polite reassurance we aren't looking below your surface if you don't look under ours. We are not saying this is a bad thing. "Hypocrisy is the homage vice renders to virtue."
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