Guidance     There's so much variance here that the best thing to do with our summary is list some individual messages: Nothing is going to stop Husband from having a close relationship. He cannot help himself, he is so passionate toward his mate. Stifle your anger; just don't answer. Being a s. o. b. gets you nowhere; that's not the way to deal with this situation. Can't do deals with her because 'her husband won't let her.' He refuses to do the work when he is shut out of the deal. He can't ge...