Advice is about a traumatic gut-wrenching event - about divorce, about losing house and home, about grief, about a life change that came precipitously and lingers on haunting the life. It describes the shock and the sadness of those experiences. But it is also about the time you were going to say something hurtful, and didn't, and about the overthrow of established ways. ================================================================================= Is this the first time you come here? Well...