Guidance      Two people get close, and there's some issue between them – or several.  It's a sure thing, isn't it?  Some of us have a gift for being gracious about this though, don't we?  And some of us keep quiet about differences in order to exploit them.  Intimacy with a quarrelsome person can be exhausting activity, or have you been there?  A shy person makes a very close friend sometimes.  I keep your secret … or I keep a secret from you … in order to not stir things up.  Some of us are ju...