Advice today is about how the devil can live in utopia, how people can get together over any grievance, any nasty ugly thing and enjoy the success of managing it; and conversely how the perfect storybook family or community could be made up of petty hateful folks. The perfect wife and mother who makes everyone happy hates her life. To some, even a perfect marriage is a problem. The worst people have the money.

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