Advice contrasts being an impulsive and natural (i. e. unimproved) person with being an enlightened person who is 'on the path.' It speaks of burdens and losses, of difficulty and slow going. It contrasts being edgy and egoistic with being patient and helpful. The gender of the cards that express this is male, so the message is directed to men in particular. It mentions being a devoted husband … who is missed.

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