In many different ways, we are looking for the right one, the right image, the right path, focusing our effort upon this search. Perfecting ourselves is what we seek and what we put our energies into, however we define, and however we focus. We could be seeking to be or to have a good looking person; we could be seeking to perfect our character, our speech, our abilities to fight ... whatever it is. We could be into sobering up – again in various ways, with various definitions. You could say 'Ev...