Guidance We are speaking both of giving up the unrealistic expectation that others are going to take loving care of us, and asserting ourselves in dealing with others in such a way they are obligated, by the rules of a fair exchange, to take care of us. In other words, there's no free lunch anymore if you're a grownup; ya hafta earn it somehow. And so does that loverboy or lovergirl of ours.
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