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Advice Attachment to our foundation (be it ever so despised, even) is fundamental. When we leave a place we have lived, worked, loved or even been sentenced to, emotions take over. Anticipation of progress in the place we are rushing into is exciting, especially when the impetus of getting out of a sad scene fuels the anticipation. New life and old life occupy the same space for a while.
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Advice I am the one who picks up the pieces and puts them back together: Stand back and watch me wade into the mess. There's the mentality that is overwhelmed when confronted by an out-of-control situation, and there's a mentality that gets out the vacuum cleaner for the debris. Such are the people muggers do not notice. Confidence you can handle this is often the whole battle!
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Advice There's a level of life experience, and there's a level of spiritual expertise, that makes trouble avoid you. Your instincts direct you away from the charming and the reckless as the muggers' instincts direct them away from you. When you have the perfect comeback, no one makes the remark any more. When you have handled and overcome the conflict and chaos within your personality, the conflict and chaos without subside remarkably.
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Advice contrasts total involvement and disengaging entirely; being all for it or all against it. It is about walking away from the scene you are part of as a member - like family, team, community, the values you currently reflect. But it is also about not fighting it, not fighting with people, not being involved with people even, and not struggling to make the income that makes you 'one of the good people of the community.'
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Advice How like a business deal is a relationship. It it looks perfect, it may be a disaster waiting to happen. Sometimes the biggest loss is something we capitalize on fortuitously. Without a meeting of the minds about the terms of it, either is likely to fail. Doing your part is the main divide between success and failure … or other parties doing their part. A terrible disappointment may be the main ingredient that turns a relationship successful.
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Advice The power struggle that ensues when rank-and-file people don't listen to Management's orders is the same process as the family members that no longer accept daddy as the dictator. The politicians' rulings are met with resistance by mainstream folks just as the love interest who barks orders and is unresponsive to Partner's needs is rejected because 'I am not going to live that kind of life.' (But it's easier to change boyfriends than governments.)
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Advice Today we are into the study … yes, the study … of blarney, of blandishment, of b.s. - something we all encounter every time we turn on electronic media (print or spoken) or listen to our fellow humans. Is the core of the earth a blarney stone, someone tell me? We speak of being skilled at emitting and detecting propaganda. We even speak of how the truth presented truthfully is such a bad fit for earthly environments that it is suspect … it is strange and weird, like the first time y...
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Advice What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, they say. Today we take on that long slow hard row to hoe that is somewhere in most everyone's life. Overcoming in that department is a major triumph, a triumph that is shared with a loved one if the challenge one person faces is connecting with another in a loving way. A long-awaited victory over a past failure is shared with a partner.
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Advice Family always has pasts, doesn't it - happy times and not-so-happy times, bereavement and celebrations, moving in and out of houses and places, children welcomed into membership and miserable childhoods. Weddings to celebrate and the parental house to gather at. Togetherness is the hallmark of family life, togetherness even when the whole scene is depressing to us.
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Advice is about what Authority can … and cannot … do. Rules of conduct disallow continuing to be a police person, soldier or whatever who violates those rules. Enforcers of the law are forbidden to be brutal. We also warn you not to do sex with men of force! This spread examines the role of Authority, male authority, bluntly. Ever so bluntly!
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