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Advice is that perspective rules: The relationship of what you think to what you do. You decide to avoid doing the usual thing in the routine way, and you do it your own unique creative way. Or, you see that 'you ain't doin' it right' and follow the instructions. Or you see you are not doing right in the moral sense, and change your ways. The contrast is whether to depart from the usual, the routine, the proper the orthodox. Neither choice is preferable or right all the time. =================...
Four Card Spreads, Our Daily Spread
Advice today is a story of everyday life that two women have; it's about their futures as to money and men. One of these women is managing a business and making money and her friend thinks of marriage. It's interesting how the same cards refer to success in money and success in marriage. Everything's going to be all right here, and they are friends forever. We contrast a dreamy woman and a practical woman.
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Advice is about those dark-night-of-the-soul times: that the way a desperate person looks at his downside affects what if anything he does in that moment about the situation. Determination, when you are weak, focuses what resources you do have on doing something. That focus or attitude or way you characterize (within your own heart) a terrible fix, either bypasses the despair that brings on paralysis or invites it.
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Advice is about the long hard search and the long hard journey to get to a loving relationship with someone you can trust, and the same long hard search and huge effort to find the location, the home-place, that is safe and friendly - the neighborhood to bring up children in. This story is about the effort, the time it takes, the patience it takes, and about the eventual success that is yours. It suggests that this is what success in life is.
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Advice is about who does what for whom in a marriage and in a family, puzzling this out and feeling the way toward a satisfying married and family life. What about the house? - Who owns it and who does what regarding it? If she supports him, what does he do for her? Figuring these things out together is the way to go, we say. He does what makes them both happy and she supports him in that, in this relationship.
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This weekend's question is simply: About the people around you that you are dealing with.
Advice makes the point that the bigger your troubles, the more of an opportunity they are, just like other people's problems are someone's chance to make money. Keep taking advantage of all the growth opportunities that trouble with other people create for you. Collectively, members of the community who are disadvantaged also create business opportunities for others to profit from. This is about win-win sit...
Four Card Spreads, Our Daily Spread
This weekend's question is simply: About the people around you that you are dealing with.
Advice is that zany people have stable relationships if they are close. People who deal with one another as one seem to deal with the craziness around them just fine. There are so many kinds of partnering up that you have to wonder what marriage really is. Just as there are a million ways for a real estate deal to go kaflooey. If you have someone who validates you and it's mutual, the two of you can handle ...
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Advice today is very simple: The worst does not happen. The disaster, whatever it is - eviction, illness, betrayal, despair - does not happen. The person in question pulls out of it beforehand, whether the pulling out is gradual or like the gunning of an engine. The feeling of narrow escape is here, though: no rejoicing is mentioned. This simple message is repeated and very clear, so someone is here who belongs to it.
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Advice combines money and romance again, this time regarding the female aspects. It speaks of child care as giving children attention, information, and support, speaks of a woman who stays at home with the kids. It also speaks of receiving the spiritual secrets, spiritual instruction, that you are entitled to receive. It even speaks of giving The Other Woman the romantic gifts she is entitled to. Each to his own!
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Advice describes a guy's approach and a guy's thinking: Focus on making love and money, being best at each. That is success. A focus of mind and ability, physical and mental energy, on the thing at hand. No distractions here and no obstacles. Doing the right thing, having the connection that gets you all the way. Between the lines is the idea that if you brook no interference, no interference will present itself.
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