Guidance   We feel inferior if we are somehow below the standard of people in our group. This applies to just about everything and just about everybody: It is the herd consciousness of mammals. We tend to recover whatever standing we have lost, or feel lost ourselves. To a lesser extent, this psychology also applies to exceeding that standard: We hesitate before we get too rich or too saintly as well as not rich enough and not well-behaved enough. . . Are YOU here for the first time?  Come in! P...