Guidance Rivalries and animosities among humans, both individually and in groups, are the norm. We are about the people who divide and the people who heal the divide today. We are not presenting the simplistic 'Love your enemy' and 'Be kind and helpful to everyone' and 'Family blood is thicker than water' whatever that means. We are looking deeper into the motives of the black sheep, the rebels against other members' peace and well-being.  

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Guidance  Doubting your fears sabotages their hold on you. Why let scary stuff get to you? - lay your hands on it. If I pretend I've got everything under control, I just may have. I brought this awful situation on myself, so I think I will handle it myself. Our big point today is that raw unmitigated gall on your part has its uses: It handles the sneaky subversive pretenses that get past our usual (polite) defenses. Sometimes your tongue should be the nuclear deterrent that keeps others' missile...

Guidance   Today we are about insulating ourselves from the bad parts of our circumstances. Not letting all the problems - problems of other people or your own - get to you. Just give others their due, be fair, and don't worry about all the suffering in the whole world. When you are needy, dance like you haven't a care in the world so what you deserve will come to you.

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Guidance (Today's picture is a newborn llama surrounded by her family, standing for the first time.  Llama lovingly welcome new members.)  Human awareness and human abilities function at higher capacity between and among men and women of goodwill. People who love each other have a telepathic and extrasensory aspect to their lives together that other couples do not share. There is healing in this rapport. The process is similar to what a skilled networker in business does, being able to call on t...

Guidance We celebrate the gentleman - the warmhearted good guy - today! The most well-meaning helpful, even devoted, person can misfit in such a way the affection he feels is short-circuited in a given situation or environment. Being leery of being rebuffed is one of those short circuits. Being in an atmosphere that is not conducive to things 'real' is another. The same concept gets applied to being truthful: Being truthful can get you disliked. You can't fight with someone who is calmly factual...

Guidance Oh, the trauma of removing a person from our lives, whether it is a divorce, or moving out of the parental house, or something else. Sometimes we miss houses more than the people we shared them with, too. Revisiting an old scene after recovery is a nostalgia all its own. Our theme is about the traumas and the recovery regarding exits.      

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Guidance In networking, we should include a bad boy or two that we know, because they do favors other types of people don't do - and because sometimes divine help comes in the form of one bad guy dealing with another, in real life. (The rabbits cheer when the wolf eats the coyote.) In the same vein, the woman with the moxie to tame a bad boy has herself a superior lover, usually long term.  

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Guidance  Humans are herd mammals, you know. Family relationships trump everything to most of us, so much so that 'loners' is a derogatory term, and people who mind their own business quietly are suspect unless they can claim to be saints to redeem the quirk. Everybody's gotta have somebody or they're nobody. If you ask a person his life story, you are told their social history; achievements are secondary. This is considered normal, which of course makes it normal. Today's messages are about tho...

Guidance  People arrange themselves, have you noticed? If something is being done, and a skill is needed, someone just appears, to perform the function. Two fellows who haven't a clue as to where the rubber meets the road attract two women who believe in them and care for their business. We also go into another subject: That connecting well with your subconscious gives you not just insight but sometimes physical abilities as well - and that both of these manifestations are mysterious, boat-rocki...