Guidance If you are an assertive type, how you talk is more important than it is for other people. When two intelligent assertive individuals interact, they trim their sails for one another: They find who can dominate on what subject or activity, in order to share the turf. Here we have a studly manipulative dude and a woman who makes people behave just by being herself. He dominates the conversation as she gets him to talk.    

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Guidance Well, this spread is a recipe for epiphany. We have two themes: New consciousness or new awareness and people troubles.We also emphatically speak of a new life, a rebirth, a recovery - counterbalanced by the same card meaning 'to return to,' which puts the 'return' into backsliding into the troubled situation. So this is Sunday, and we are being psychiatric here … fair warning? It's also Sunday and we have waaaay too many sentences for comfort. You can quit whenever you like, okay? &nb...

Guidance Some effort and energy goes into having and keeping a life on an even keel, goes into having a legitimate, respectable, peaceful existence, overall. We explore this thought, with a few detours as usual.  

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Guidance  We continue our theme of exploring mistrust today.  Sometimes love (yeah, really loves you) includes having a use for you, having ulterior motives.  (As Helen Gurley Brown said in 'Sex an the Single Woman,' money is sexy.)    Ulterior but ambiguous situations like 'Yes, she nurtures her mooch, but the one she loves is her equal.' and 'Pretend like you've got everything in the man you love, and you will be everything to him.' … are things to think about, yes?        ...

Guidance Patients in mental wards will try to open locks hundreds of times a day. Some people are gonna do it their way, never mind what is established. Those people have to be reminded forcibly (put in their place sometimes) that 'This is the way we get along' or 'This is the way we do business.' That reminder is necessary.            

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Guidance Not playing by the rules … (cheating, stealing, flings) is decided upon, we say. We weigh the fun or reward factor against the risk factor. A sweet naïve lady thinks up ways to pay the cad back. The cad's strategy was to be respectful of the naïve gal. He has his fun away from home and the fun gal tricks him into child support. Our four cards tell all sorts of sagas of People Not Playing By the Rules.            

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Guidance Meeting The One is scary. Running away happens. But what a life a loving romantic man has with the woman who has it all, when he does pursue. Let's gun the engine and get over that scary hump. We speak of getting help over the hard part in love and in business.  

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Guidance Today is about people who take advantage, who betray the trust of friends or business associates. Nothing disastrous: The message is to keep an eye out for smart alecs and bandits in all categories of your life. The emphasis is not negative, as I said, just a heads-up.        

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Guidance  Staying together come what may. Holding our ground against whatever there is to worry about out there. Always keeping in contact with whatever and whoever we connect with. Or even nagging ourselves about confronting the resident mooch on the couch. Weathering insecure financial times, hanging in there. Today's messages are about different flavors of waiting, about the factor *the passing of time* is in our story.

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