Here’s a special Wednesday treat for all of you who do your own Tarot using this site as a library of combined meanings of Tarot cards. The treat is a peek into why your question should include pertinent factors that the cards are not precise about. The big factors are dates, person(s), and time.

Ask ‘who did it’ and you get a description you may not recognize. Ask the motive of who did it, and you will get a description of the scene that usually tells you whodunit. Don’t ask ‘when’ about anything because Tarot is mass-consciousness based ‘out there’ or ‘in there’ somewhere, and isn’t earthbound with clocks and calendars. Instead, you ask ‘Will X happen in Y time?’ as I call it. Not ‘When will he call?’ but ‘Will he call this week?’ That converts the question into a yes-or-no one which Tarot will answer well (or pretty well) giving details that are applicable (cogent).

First thing here is the question I did answer for our client ‘as modified.’ She wants to know ‘what a relationship is going to become,’ not specifying the relationship. Tarot Verbatim is fine (is excellent, really) with that. With no background, however, once the cards talk about marriage and leaving or switching, you as the reader don’t know who’s who. The answer is to be from Client’s perspective, but you don’t know which position Client occupies unless that is in the ‘history.’ And there’s no history required in these cold Email readings. This is why the instructions on the Email Reading tab suggest saying whether love interest is married

I wrote Client, and when she did not respond right away, simply modified the question to include just Dude and her. That is the first set of spreads you see.

Then Client answers with history and perspectives. Tarot did rise to the occasion in its answer.

THEN I include the original set of cards which are confusing to apply if you don’t know the history. Now, you can put these together and see how to handle this – how to phrase a general relationship question which gives no identity of parties or background.

If you subscribe to Tarot Email Training, you know things like this about doing readings and forming questions. Click Here to try that out.

You can also get email readings just like these for a mere $18.75. (Sometimes you wait. These are underpriced because I love doing them, so other parts of the work come first, AND the email readings require peace-and-quiet which isn’t scheduled on my calendar (or yours?).

And by the way, you can also call for a telephone reading and ask that the pertinent cards be identified and explained for you. I do a lot of that.

 

Question: What will I see this relationship situation actually become in the real world in the next, say, three months?

 

Judgment – Eight of Pentacles – Six of Swords

He’s back working on the relationship after being distant..

 

He’s back – Judgment

 

 

 

working on it – Eight of Pentacles

 

 

 

after avoiding it. – Six of Swords

 

 

 

 

Lovers – Ace of Pentacles – Five of Swords

Smarty Pants is being the perfect lover.
.

 

Smarty Pants – Five of Swords

 

 

is being the perfect – Ace of Pentacles

 

 

lover. – Lovers.

 

 

 

 

Wheel of Fortune – Six of Wands – King of Cups

Being a wonderfully affectionate man – something up his sleeve.

 

He is being your good affectionate man – King of Cups

 

 

 

– it’s happening in a wonderful way – Wheel of Fortune

 

 

 

but there’s some pretense to it too. – Six of Wands

 

 

 

 

Magician – Six of Cups – King of Wands

Passionate man takes initiative being romantic.

 

Passionate man – King of Wands*

 

 

 

is taking the initiative – Magician

 

 

to be loving. – Six of Cups

 

[King of Wands is also a husband or married man.]

 

 

Eight of Cups – Knight of Pentacles – Queen of Wands

1. Deliberately going out of his way for you to be his wife/woman

– Or -.

2. One thing on his mind: .to leave  his wife.

1.

 

Deliberately – Knight of Pentacles

 

 

 

going out of his way – Eight of Cups

 

 

 

for you to be his wife. – Queen of Wands

 

 

 

2.

 

One thing on his mind: – Knight of Pentacles

 

 

 

to leave – Eight of Cups

 

 

 

his wife. – Queen of Wands

 

 

 

 

 

Strength – Seven of Wands – Ten of Cups

Your effect on him is: He feels pressured to marry you.

 

Your effect on him is: – Strength

 

 

 

He feels pressured – Seven of Wands

 

 

 

to marry you. – Ten of Cups

 

 

 

Note the last cards of the last three spreads are about marriage: King of Wands is the husband card in Tarot Verbatim™; Queen of Wands, the wife card; Ten of Cups, one of two good marriage cards.

Emily writes to Client, re the first set of spreads:

This looks like a married man who has ‘the other woman.’  And it looks like that stressed guy you can’t make up his mind but is being affectionate.

If I type up what I have, it may not make sense without me knowing who’s who.

I will wait a while for you to respond, and write these spreads down, and ask the question again limiting the answer to just him and you.

Client writes to Emily re the above Note:

Hi Emily,

Thank you for this.

He is not married, but recently divorced with all sorts of drama with manipulative ex and 2 very manipulative/manipulated kids.

In this sense, even though we are very much in a committed relationship (it’s been almost 2 years, and we met well after his separation but during the final months of divorce litigation), I guess I am the other woman because of all the claws and fangs still gripping him and pulling him in directions his heart does not agree with?

I should add that he has said many time that he will “never get married again”… perhaps he is conflicted about that belief and the prospect of me walking away from him and the drama that he may have to continue to deal with for the next several years…

Emily writes to Client,

This thread of conversation here is a perfect example of the limitations of verbatim Tarot – a perfect example of what should be put in a question to get a focused answer (because the question best contains what the cards are likely to be imprecise about).

I am thinking of publishing it along with the original spread that I replaced when I asked another question limiting the answer to ‘just you and he.’

How do you feel about that?  Your name isn’t mentioned, of course.

Client writes to Emily

Sure, go for it.  Thanks!

OKAY. HERE’S THE ORIGINAL CARDS I DESELECTED RE THE SAME QUESTION:

 

Hierophant – Six of Swords – Queen of Pentacles

Is on his way out, committing to a woman who cares for and supports him.

Is on his way out – Six of Swords

 

 

 

committing to – Hierophant

 

 

 

a woman who supports and cares for him. – Queen of Pentacles

 

 

 

 

Nine of Swords – Queen of Wands – High Priestess

Up nights anxious about a wife and the other woman.

 

Up nights due to anxiety: – Nine of Swords

 

 

 

has a wife – Queen of Wands

 

 

 

and another woman. – High Priestess

 

 

 

 

King of Cups – Ace of Wands – Ace of Pentacles

1. He is weak and emotional, he’s got to do right.

– And -.

2. You’re the only right one to have sex with – he’s your honey.

1.

 

He feels like such a weakling – King of Cups

 

 

 

because he must – Ace of Wands

 

 

 

be right, do the right thing. – Ace of Pentacles

 

 

 

2.

 

You’re the only one to have sex with – Ace of Wands

 

 

 

the right one, the right path – Ace of Pentacles

 

 

 

because he is your honey. – King of Cups

 

 

 

 

Magician – Tower – Ten of Cups

The man is doing both a divorce and a marriage.

 

The man is doing both – Magician

 

 

 

a divorce – Tower

 

 

 

and a satisfying/happy marriage. – Ten of Cups

 

 

 

 

King of Swords – King of Wands – Fool

1. He is neither a strong man nor a husband.

– And -.

2. The passionate man isn’t a strong honorable man.

1.

 

He is not either – Fool

 

 

 

a strong man – King of Swords

 

 

 

or a husband. – King of Wands

 

 

 

2.

 

The passionate man – King of Wands

 

 

 

isn’t – Fool

 

 

a strong manly man. – King of Swords

 

 

 

 

 

Page of Cups – Page of Swords – Two of Pentacles

Is anxious and uncertain over and over again.

 

Is anxious – Page of Swords

 

 

 

and uncertain – Page of Cups

 

 

 

all the time, over and over. – Two of Pentacles

 

 

 

 

Lovers – Star – Knight of Cups

Here your lover is, declaring his affection to you.

 

Here your lover is – Lovers

 

 

 

declaring to you – Star

 

 

 

his affection – being a loving boyfriend. – Knight of Cups

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

  

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