Guidance   We come with labels and categories that are assigned to us, not chosen. We are in situations we have not chosen. That is 'who we are' officially … like it or not. Some people take it entirely too seriously, too, ya think? There are advantages and disadvantages to these labels and categories upon us. The advantages have disadvantages, and the disadvantages have advantages, to complicate matters. Being one gender or another, or one age or another, or one race or another qualifies or doe...

Guidance     How happy I will be to get out of here! we are saying. It's about divorce, quitting and leaving a place. We put a very positive spin on our desire to get out. We say things like: 'She figures out what he really wants is to be a brat, and breaks up with him.' and 'A happy divorcee is one who knows what kind of man she wants.' The big news, though is 'The very best happens re the person you love and worry about.  

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Guidance We have a fling, fun, divorce, confrontations with the Other Woman, even sex. Fourth of July is not the time to be seen with a married man according to our Tarot adviser here.

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Guidance Not communicating is our subject today. There are some things that are best kept to yourself, even if you have expertise about them, even if you are being questioned, even if you are a talker. Why are they curious? Are they writing a book, or what? Some things you don't tell your spouse-person, if you have any sense and value the relationship. Some things authority is nosy about. We are making this point over and over, in different ways, so this point is important to someone out there....

Guidance What can make me easygoing and give me a taste for the elegant life more than my dysfunctional quarrelsome socially challenged relatives? But can I change them by my elegant example? Instead I move up (and move out of the old neighborhood) to 'a better class of people,' which is easier if I am good-looking and female and smart while still young. This is quite the struggle on my part, especially if some ethnic mores are a factor. This is our story for today.  

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Guidance  Every trait a person can have has its legitimate use. Today we discuss being manipulative. When we are stuck and things seem (or are) hopeless, out comes the foxy side of us, and, by golly, we recover our bearings. This trait was issued to you at birth. Take care of it, because it is what releases our parking brake when the train is coming.

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Guidance    "An easygoing fellow gets along with her without really intending to, just going along with a woman who attends to his needs." Today we examine dovetailing of self-interest. People who have compatible self-interest safely trust one another and profit together whether socially or monetarily. A person whose self-interest is incompatible with yours will operate as a secret enemy even if they don't feel that way about you. 'Birds of a feather should nest together.'

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Guidance  The grand opportunity deal, the most wonderful relationship you ever will have, does not walk onto the stage of your day with that label, necessarily. Some of the best things I ever did were blunders. You can have a gorgeous relationship with an eccentric person. You can invest in a jackpot by mistake, or by being stupid. Lady luck is a weirdo who could pass you by.    

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Guidance  Perception is our study today. Whether we perceive something as silly or solid determines our direction. Unfortunately, our direction is also a factor in our view of the world. Our direction creates assumptions, and those assumptions are an inertia factor that keep us on course no matter where we are headed on that course. Sometimes perception is extra-sensory and sensible: Hunches can be brilliant and research can be misleading. Our message today is: So where are we headed? Let's take...

Guidance  We continue with paying attention to how you are being paid, how you are being treated, is it time to leave, and should I say something first? Overstaying our welcome in our own life story is a waste of what our life is made of: time. This is advice to take stock of 'Who I am being here, and who I would be there.' Likewise, take stock of the same question regarding the people in your story: What is in it for them; and is this, our story, a good setting for them?  

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