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Advice Sometimes we are all together in the wrong place at the wrong time, and we should not prolong the mutual angst. Some people are toxic (at least in the situation at hand) and they have the gift of arranging the people around them in the worst possible chronic gridlock. Busting out is the plan. You will at least not be part of the hurtful organization yourself.
Two of Wands
Tower - Queen of Swords - Ten of Pentacles
Split with Relative(s) and be Successf...
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Advice Growing up in a screwed-up bad scene motivates a person to get out of there and succeed (sometimes). The opposite of this is the person who has the good-guy respectable look and uses it to take advantage, con, mooch and steal from fellow humans. Self-improvement or destroying others: Contrast. We also say that a person who has exited the internal or external ghetto can inspire others to do so by example.
Page of Wands
Chariot - Five of Swords - Ten of Pentacles
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Advice How normal differences are! - and people can settle them rationally and peaceably by getting together and explaining themselves. Whether it's love or business or family or the larger human groups. We are speaking of peaceful combat, which is what sports and courts of law try to be. We suggest a mentality of being very direct with our truth in order to engage the other side in settlement. That's a good way to fight, we are saying here.
Hermit
Five of Wands - Three of Pentacles - Sta...
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Advice When business is done on a shoestring, the art of the deal requires pondering carefully whether there is enough benefit for each of the involved parties to perform their part in the contract. Meeting to negotiate that could be very confidential. In a love relationship or love affair, the same question being asked pays off: Is there enough in this affair for my partner to have reason to do his/her part to suit me?
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Advice When you have a bad day or lose your nerve, the situations you finessed before reapply to aggravate and distress you. The Booger-bears are back; how shall I handle them this time? What was that I did before? - it's hard to remember when I am crying and cannot sleep … At this juncture, seeing the humor in the situation is a great tool for re-conquering and getting a grip on already-dead opposition, whether the opposition is internal, external or all of the above.
Strength
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Advice Attachment to our foundation (be it ever so despised, even) is fundamental. When we leave a place we have lived, worked, loved or even been sentenced to, emotions take over. Anticipation of progress in the place we are rushing into is exciting, especially when the impetus of getting out of a sad scene fuels the anticipation. New life and old life occupy the same space for a while.
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Advice I am the one who picks up the pieces and puts them back together: Stand back and watch me wade into the mess. There's the mentality that is overwhelmed when confronted by an out-of-control situation, and there's a mentality that gets out the vacuum cleaner for the debris. Such are the people muggers do not notice. Confidence you can handle this is often the whole battle!
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Advice There's a level of life experience, and there's a level of spiritual expertise, that makes trouble avoid you. Your instincts direct you away from the charming and the reckless as the muggers' instincts direct them away from you. When you have the perfect comeback, no one makes the remark any more. When you have handled and overcome the conflict and chaos within your personality, the conflict and chaos without subside remarkably.
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Advice contrasts total involvement and disengaging entirely; being all for it or all against it. It is about walking away from the scene you are part of as a member - like family, team, community, the values you currently reflect. But it is also about not fighting it, not fighting with people, not being involved with people even, and not struggling to make the income that makes you 'one of the good people of the community.'
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Advice How like a business deal is a relationship. It it looks perfect, it may be a disaster waiting to happen. Sometimes the biggest loss is something we capitalize on fortuitously. Without a meeting of the minds about the terms of it, either is likely to fail. Doing your part is the main divide between success and failure … or other parties doing their part. A terrible disappointment may be the main ingredient that turns a relationship successful.
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